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Saturday, August 28, 2010

... stress lately ...

I normally am not as negative as I have been in recent posts ... it's just in the last two weeks ... I've;
  • Moved
    • then exaggerate that by adding "into my mom's basement at 32"
    • then add "by force because my dad kicked me out of a house that he bought for me, that I never asked him to"
  • My baby boy started Kindergarten
  • My girls started a new school
    • exaggerate that by both of them having stomach problems (that my dimestore psychology thinks is probably psychosomatic), one of them having hives, and both of them not wanting me out of their site 90%+ of the time
  • My divorce was finalized
    • then exaggerate that by adding that my child support was cut to 25% of what it was during the separation ... adding financial stress
  • My relationship went from live-in to long-distance
    • then exaggerate that by adding the fact that he has no cell service where he is and really no privacy for phone calls 
  • My dog was forbidden to live in this house, so I now have a long-distance relationship with my dog

I'm sure there's more, but that's what I can think of right now .. so it's not that I'm always negative ... I just think I have had the two most stressful weeks of my life ever ...

1 comment:

mon said...

i know things seem hard right now...considering what i've gone thru in the last several months, and this with only 1 kid, i can't even begin to imagine how difficult this is for you, and with 3 kids! being outside of your situation, i can say that i hope you keep your head up. try to find the silver lining in things. at least you have a mother's basement to move in with...without that, where would you have gone? the child support was cut, but at least there is still money coming in. and even tho your man is hard to reach right now, your time together will be that much more fulfilling. i know that in no way you are ungrateful, and you probably don't need me to remind you of the above mentioned things, but sometimes having an outside view can put things into perspective a lil more. hang in there...everything does happen for a reason. when God closes a door, somewhere He opens a window. Just give it time, He does have a plan for you!

<3 U!

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